People judge you & ask do you eat?

Anytime anyone loses weight especially a ton of weight many questions are asked. I am faced with this so much. 

Everyone no matter of size always will say I’m fat , I want to loose weight, even if their a stick. 

Well because of social media and because I’m a big selfie queen. People see my pictures all the time . I get told omg you lost so much weight. Stop loosing weight, you need to eat , you look to skinny, do you eat, etc. 

Some people will say you look great how do you do it. Always going to hear negative and positive. I do eat . I eat small amounts every few hours. Sometimes even my best friend will call I say I’m eating I’ll call you back. I get told your always eating . I’ll eat a quarter lbs of  chicken or sometimes just a protein bar every few hours. Protein shakes also. Many of these are meal replacements as well. I have gotten told go eat a bowl of pasta. My answer is no. It is all carbs , sugar , not good for you. When you have surgery or dieting once you try something once it happens more then once. Those were bad habits of the past also. 

Even after holiday ok go to target everything 50% chocolate you have to say no to even a sale. It’s only going to make you not healthy again. During holiday dinners everyone eats I bring my own quarter lb of chicken sliced. 

Christmas Day dinner my family went to Asian food , I sat their and ate a protein bar for dinner . 

It’s all about you and how you want to take care of yourself. People will always say ok try a bit . I say no , they say why not oh one bit will not hurt you. Not everyone is in your shoes . The second you say no they think you starve yourself or unreal. How can you not. Question after question. 

Going from being overweight to being a normal weight is a good thing. No I’m not to skinny . I do not weigh 90-100 lbs. No I’m not a model, they don’t eat everyone thinks. I lived with a model and she did eat as well healthy .  I am a normal weight. If I loose more I wouldn’t mind either . 

People just shouldn’t judge . Everyone does go through things. People should be happy for people’s  success .